diblog | February 8, 2013
I guess the best place to start is the day of your birth. I wish I remembered more, but somehow I have been left with a hazy memory, a cloudy smear of the day that forever changed my life. I knew you would be born this day, November 7th 2012. It was a Wednesday, exactly […]
Category: 2010s, November babies |
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Tags: breech, c-section, down syndrome, epidural, hospital, midwife, second child, stillbirth
diblog | May 15, 2012
We started trying to have a baby in October 2003. By July 2004, my doctor was concerned and sent us for testing at a reproductive endocrinologist (RE). The appointment was on our wedding anniversary. “You will never have a child naturally.” “There is a 99.99999% chance that you will never conceive a child on your […]
Category: 2000s, December babies |
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Tags: back labour, epidural, first child, hospital, induction, infertility, vaginal
diblog | January 4, 2012
Dear Zack, Here is the story of your birth. Peter (Daddy) and Tasha (Mommy) were interested in having a baby, but Mommy lost her period for a year due to a medication she was on, so she was really worried about infertility – she didn’t know what had happened at first. They kept waiting for […]
Category: 2000s, February babies |
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Tags: drug-free, first child, hospital, midwife, natural remedies, vaginal
diblog | September 14, 2011
It was January, 5 days before my due date, when it all started, and I was not really sure what was going on. Remembering the midwife’s message of “it can take a long time” we thought we would head out and go shopping… let nature take its course… that way I could keep moving and […]
Category: 2000s, January babies |
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Tags: drug-free, first child, hospital, long labour, midwife, positive
diblog | September 14, 2011
This is the story of the stillbirth of my son, Sebastian. It was a memorable experience, if not a happy one. I have written it without really softening the edges. When Sebastian was born, we already knew he wasn’t alive. Just before noon on July 8th, we found out the results of that morning’s ultrasound, which […]
Category: 2010s, July babies |
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Tags: breech, hospital, induction, midwife, narcotics, second child, short labour, stillbirth, vaginal
diblog | November 25, 2010
I didn’t really have concrete expectations before I gave birth. My idea of what a birth would be like was glorified. As a nurse, I had seen two births that were not at all scary: one was a smooth birth with epidural, and it looked all beautiful and happy, just like you would hope it […]
Category: 2000s, January babies |
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Tags: breech, c-section, emergency, epidural, first child, hospital, midwife
diblog | September 12, 2010
A Perfect Birth As Remembered by the Doula Tania was referred to me in her last month of pregnancy. She felt that, had she received the right kind of support for her first delivery, it may have gone differently and less traumatically. After 3 prenatal visits and a refreshed course, Tania and Lorin were prepared […]
Category: 2000s, August babies |
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Tags: doula, drug-free, hospital, positive, second child, vaginal
diblog | September 8, 2010
Erica’s Birth, July 1985 Hard to believe it was 25 years ago that my first daughter was born. Some memories will come and go, others fade with time, but birth memories stay with you forever! Pregnancy was always something I dreamed of and looked forward to, even as a little girl. And let me be […]
Category: 1980s, August babies, July babies, March babies |
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Tags: c-section, drug-free, first child, hospital, overdue, positive, second child, short labour, siblings, third child, vaginal
diblog | July 11, 2010
It was the summer of 1974. I was 24 years old, married for one year. I was pregnant for the second time, but this was going to be my baby to keep. My pregnancy was fairly uneventful. The only craving I had was for fried shrimp at 2 in the morning. The closest I could […]
Category: 1970s, July babies |
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Tags: back labour, epidural, hospital, long labour, overdue, second child
diblog | June 9, 2010
Before giving birth, I tried to be as open-minded as possible about my options. I did my research, looking into homebirth, drugs versus drug-free, etc. I was open to the idea of an epidural – but not set on it unless I felt that I needed it. We were prepared for the idea of a […]
Category: 2010s, March babies |
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Tags: first child, hospital, midwife, narcotics, natural remedies, overdue, tearing, vaginal